Selasa, 15 Februari 2011

Girls and their endless-grouping-system

Despite all the benefits of being a girl; the freedom of wearing both skirts and pants, freedom of expressing your feeling anytime you want, and our amazing ability of manipulating your mood and feeling whenever necessary to get man to do anything you want, and other stuffs. I found that being a girl is more complicated and harder than that.

Since we were very young, we are faced by fierce competition to mingle and survive the elimination process of grouping! Its tough, its scary and many times created mental breakdown for the non-survivals. The groups are pretty much like this;
1. The 'Born to be rich, pretty and famous' girls, are those blessed with almost everything people need in the world. Most of them will have a successful social life in the future
2. The 'Cool and trendy' girls, are 2nd in rank. They pretty much rule the school. They date the seniors, hang out in canteen disturbing juniors. They are active in school organization and most of the cool stuffs.
3. The 'Nerds', are those who don't socialize alot. Because they're not that pretty, because they're not so smart. Or combination of the above.
For those who are not categorized under these group, are just ordinary girls, the unknown. Just like me.

This system might vary in different cultures and countries, but the rule is pretty much the same. There's no way you can escape this system. If you cant survive this system, you'll fall under The Unknown group, an ordinary.

Since I can remember, I never stick to one group in my life as a student. Call me naive, but i wasn't aware that you have to chose a pact to survive school life. Since I dont act, dress, talk or even walk girly. I dont talk about boys and artists all the time, I dont use branded gel shoes, and bring Kipling pattern bags, Im kinda left out, not trendy, not cool. So I hang out with the boys, where their system are a less tough. They tell you straight to your face what they feel, that way they're easier-to-understand species. Turns out that I learned a lot from them (apart from all the p*rn cds they collected for pride), and I got to join the band. How cool is that! Well at least for me it is. I dont have many girl friends. Its ok, better to have few that sticks with you, rather than having many that never around.

I forgot all of this, until now, when I drop Mikail everyday to school. After many times, only I realized that its the same system all over again. The hot mamas, with shiny hair, nice dresses and pretty shoes are in one corner, talking about fancy stuffs. The A+ moms, in another corner, talking about their kids' development. And where am I sitting, if you ask? Just like old time, the ordinary people who mingle and never talk again the next day as if we never met.
Tell me really, is there some kind of secret code you have to say to join the pretty pact? I'd like to know.

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